A few months ago, I was asked to speak to a large group of adults in our area.
My topic was “Successful Parenting”
If that wasn’t intimidating enough-
the gentleman who asked me said,
“Now what we are really looking for
is practical tips and ideas that can be taken
home and implemented immediately into
the homes of those who attend. We want
them to feel empowered and successful.”
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HOLY COW! I stopped breathing and
IMMEDIATELY had a non stop movie
playing in my mind of ALL the things
I’ve done to completely scar my children!
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I’ve spoken to big groups before,
I’ve spoken about really sensitive topics-
but Parenting, this is a very personal topic!!
Parenting is one of those things that can stir
a lot of emotions- people can easily feel judged,
and when any of that happens,
lots of people just turn off and come up with
a million reasons why “that won’t work at my house!”
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Man, this felt like a heavy task-
and I didn’t want to get it wrong in any way!
I started with a great big prayer
(and a zillion little ones)
and thought about the wonderful gift
that parenting is to me!
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It is hard, it is often thankless,
and it is always EXHAUSTING…
but if you can step back out of all of that
and realize what a gift it is to be able to influence
the direction, course and outcome of someone’s
life- to be THE person that someone thinks of
when they think safe, secure and happy!
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I KNOW parenting is a gift.
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After much thought,
I came up with a defining moment in my
own parenting journey.
It was the realization that my focus needs to be
on a “To Teach” list and not on my normal “To Do” list!
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It was when I began to look at my role as a mother
in this way- as a teacher and guide of my children’s life journey
that I realized nothing seemed burdensome or tedious anymore.
Nothing seemed trite or menial in my day,
I found an increased desire to help them GAIN something
out of our time together and we found reason to
incorporate joy, team work and beauty into every day-
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Because let’s face it-
“Men are that they might have joy” 2 Nephi 2:25
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Over the past several days, I’ve shared five suggestions that seem to have
made a positive impact on our family. Because
they are very general, there is plenty of room to customize
these suggestions for your home and family life.
Suggestions for Successful Parenting
1. View parenting as a gift with many things to TEACH
2. Create a Vision for Your Family
3. See the Potential in Your Children that they often
can’t see in themselves
4. Create in Your Homes Opportunity for Children
to recognize the Spirit of the Lord early in their Lives
5. Hold Regular Family Councils AND Involve the
Children in Big Decisions